- From: Jesse Nelson <
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- Subject: [chef] Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Writing a Start Handler
- Date: Tue, 19 Aug 2014 12:57:29 -0700
Nathan you are awesome. Thanks for calling out the help vampire.
On Aug 19, 2014, at 12:48 PM, Nathen Harvey <
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We don't really have a method or process for banning people from our mailing list. This might be a good topic for discussion as part of the Community Summits, part of our RFC process, and / or move the discussion to another fourm.
Douglas, et. al,
The guidelines include things like: - Be welcoming, friendly, and patient.
- Be considerate.
- Be respectful.
- Be professional.
- Be careful in the words that you choose.
- When we disagree, let’s all work together to understand why.
Interacting with the community in a way that is outside of our community guidelines is unacceptable.
Responses like " So it sounds like your basically saying this is a mess." with seemingly little effort to understand the help that's being offered is disrespectful, unprofessional, and inconsiderate. It's clear that you're struggling with trying to understand the way handlers work. It's not clear that you're interested in working to understand how they work or try things that will help.
The term for this type of interaction is " help vampire". Douglas, you are exhibiting some of the textbook behavior of a help vampire which is going to lead to frustration for you and those who try to help you. Eventually, your questions to the list will be ignored unless this behavior improves. I don't really think anyone wants that.
I am happy to discuss further with anyone at just about any time.
Thanks, Nathen
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